The Truth About Why “Nice Guys” Really Do Finish Last

Posted by John Alexander on February 24th, 2007 — Posted in Becoming Attractive To Women

What if everything women have ever told you about what they find attractive in guys is a bald-faced lie?

Let me put it this way: think back to whether you’ve been in situations like these…

- You sit and listen for hours to a woman tell you her boring stories (like the mainstream dating books tell you to).

- You do various favors for that chick you’ve got a crush on, like pick her up from the airport (and carry her bags), help her with groceries, fix things around her house, etc.

- You’re in a relationship with a girl, and you’re chasing her like a puppy — and then after awhile she loses interest in you.

- You’ve blown big bucks on a woman you’ve just started dating, spending money to her dining, to the movies, and even shopping and on vacations.

- You’ve ever bought a girl a drink at a bar, in order for her to talk to you.

So now let me ask you a question… How did that “nice guy” behavior work out for you?

Not too well I bet. Otherwise you wouldn’t have found yourself at my site.

Don’t feel bad though. Odds are you’ve even complained to a woman about this in the past, only to have her tell you something like, “Plenty of women love nice guys. Just be yourself, and there’s that perfect girl out there for you.”

Now, it would be great if this were true, but the fact is, you need to pay attention to how women BEHAVE, not what they SAY. Look at the guys women actually sleep with.

But on the other hand, you may be thinking, you don’t want to be an abusive jerk either.

That’s why I’m giving you a new way of thinking. As your coach, I’m going to make you not into a nice guy or a jerk, but an Alpha Male.

No more are you going to be a clingy wimp. No more are you going to keep screwing up with women, no more being “just friends,” and no more being lonely.

I’m going to do this by fixing you internally. I’m going to put YOU in control of your destiny — NOT women. You’re going to become a rare breed, a high quality Alpha Male, so that getting girls will soon become one of the EASIEST things you can imagine.